The "unpleasant reason" is dangerous for children with "smartphone pickles" of corona.

The world is changing dramatically due to the influence of the new colonavirus. For children, the learning style, such as the spread of online classes, will change, and the ability to learn before going to society will change far from the age of their parents. Many people are worried about what parents can do to their children in such a rapidly changing modern age. Therefore, the author, who has been interviewing for education so far, is based on various ways and interviews such as education, physiology, psychology, and brain science. "All the best children raising children are the most important thing for the state -of -the -art new common sense x the most important thing for children" in one book. In practicing 100 "what you want to do", we also offer more detailed "421 concrete measures", not only the theory, but also carefully dropping what to do. 。 From "how to communicate" to "how to study at home", "play", "lesson", "how to compliment and scold", "reading", "English", "smartphone countermeasures", "Meals", "sleep" It is a new era of "child -rearing textbooks" that covers all the themes of child -rearing and aiming for the most convenient and useful child -rearing book as of 2020. In this article, we will introduce some of this book, editing and excerpted from this book.

Just blame the effect

　According to a survey conducted by KDDI in November 2018, the ownership of elementary school students' mobile phones and smartphones will be more than half in urban areas after third grade.

　In February 2019, the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology revised the policy of bringing mobile phones to elementary and junior high schools so far, so it may become even lower in the future.

　The sight of an infant in a stroller playing a parent's smartphone is now commonplace.Even for young children, smartphones are becoming more indispensable from everyday life.

　Professor Mitsutsu Toyoda of Wakayama University School of Teaching, who is familiar with ICT (information and communication technology) education for children, foster children's "judgment" rather than "restrictions" that keep their smartphones and games away.It is important.

　Including online games, the director of the National Hospital Organization Hisatohama Medical Center, which is working on online -dependent treatment and research, is not unilaterally blaming the child who depends on the Internet or imposing his parents' thoughts.It is important to be aware of the problem and have a willingness to change.

　Children who have more time at home due to this corona are inevitably more time to watch their smartphones, but how do they make "smartphone rules"?

Write about advantages and disadvantages

　Regarding smartphones, parents and children discuss the disadvantages of "easy to contact with friends" and "can immediately investigate what they don't understand", and the disadvantages of "getting worse", "getting in the way of studying", and "reply is troublesome".increase.

　Even if it seems to be a merit, it is often aware that there are many cases where the disadvantages are triggered.

Decide "use time" for parents and children

　I will record my smartphone usage time every day for parents and children.Then, divide between weekdays and holidays, and decide "what time to what time you can use" and "How many hours per day to use".

The place to use a smartphone or the place where you do not use it is decided where the family reaches the eyes.

　If the child is imposed on the rules, the parent is unlimited for 24 hours, so the child will not be willing to follow the rules, so parents and children will follow the rules.If you can't protect it, you will decide what to do with penalty, such as banning the whole day.

Teach "what you shouldn't do"

　Make the following rules understand the following.

・ There is no information that can be identified by individuals, such as name, address, phone number, school name, test, notification table, etc. on the Internet.・ I do not see drugs, weapons, suicide, violence, adult sites.・ Do not write bad words, rumors, or dissatisfaction with people on LINE and SNS.・ Do not send personal information of yourself or other people on SNS.

Do not respond to "trading"

　Even if you request an extension of time in exchange for studying, do not respond.In addition, parents say, "I'll buy 〇〇 if I spend less time online."

　If you can have a precedent even once, you will break the rules in a quiet way, and the demands will escalate more and more.

　On the other hand, if you can manage it a little, it is also important to praise it.

Protect your child with "filtering"

　At the age where the rules are not fully understood, we use a filtering service that restricts the access of the website and can set the app so that it cannot be downloaded.

　Filtering will be limited, so we will cultivate the children's own judgment while relaxing the restrictions as they grow.